3 ways Love will change your life

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Love is one of the things that has serious and huge impact on our life. It is an instinctive feeling, we have it since we are born, even before somehow, but while growing up we tend to forget its use, how to show and receive it, and how powerful this feeling can be. Busy with our daily life, duties and obligations, lost between what we want and what we must do, we might find struggles with others, with our work and also with our own selves, and we keep ignoring the reason why, while it can be simply a “love” problem. So, does love affect our life? And how can we love well and get the best out of it?

Here we'll discuss 3 ways when love is the problem solver.

This has become a popular term nowadays, but I truly do believe that self-love is the key to a happier life. what is it actually about? It's simple.

When you look at the mirror just adore what you see, with its flaws and imperfections, because this is what makes you who you are.  Give yourself a chance of love and care, listen to your inner self and appreciate it. If you don't do it first, who else's going to do it for you?

Try to accept and appreciate who you are, and what you look like, what defines you may not be the well-known "perfect", but it will definitely be THE PERFECT for YOU. There is no need to compare yourself to others if you’ll only criticize and tell yourself a bunch of negative affirmations that will do nothing but drag you down, make you lose confidence and make you sad and insecure about your own skin. Be proud of who you are and what you look like because all those small DETAILS are what defines you.

Once you'll start loving yourself, you will notice some CHANGES happening to your life very easily. Either your mental and physical health will be improved, you'll be more productive and more confident to start realizing your dreams and living better. Taking care of yourself will be a natural reflex, a lifestyle that can even affect others. Your friends and family and anyone else is able to notice that you're really okay with yourself and have no issues with that, not because you are a beauty icon or the smartest person on earth, but because you are aware and happy with who you are; this is the beauty people are looking for, this harmony and coherence.

Finally, for that point, once you learn how to love yourself, you will feel more energized, and full of positivity and determination to face the world and embrace your dreams.

Simply because doing what we love is FREEDOM and loving what we do is HAPPINESS.

Once you do something you are actually passionate about, you like that thing and enjoy every single moment you spend doing it. It is a motivation itself that makes you ready to always do more and do your best.

It may be work, studies, a hobby or anything else, loving this thing that you do and have to do, improves your productivity as it boosts you with strong positive energy, enough to make fulfilling the most annoying task ever much easier and a lot less stressful. Because you'll be doing it with love and passion.

Loving what you do, deals with seeing it from a different angle, finding positive sides in whatever it could be. Our life is in fact full of a bunch of tasks and duties, towards either ourselves or others, and sometimes we just have to do things, but if we don't like it or try to like it at least a little bit, we will never succeed in it.  However, the solution is within our hands. If you start by loving it first, and accepting it as a reality, you won't be procrastinating about it forever, in contrary achieving and doing more of it will become a goal you'll want to work hard for, so you'll become a lot more productive. In another words, one more time Love is the key to success.

Do not fear or avoid the L word!

Showing love towards the ones who deserve it is a sign that you are a fully aware and complete person, conscious of the importance of love in your own and others' life in general. Starting by yourself, you love and appreciate YOU, then you do the same for people around you, this is how you'll find balance.

By showing love I do not mean keep talking romantic and sentimental with poetic expressions... this is nonsense. However, love can be shown in so many ways, it actually has its own languages. It is about encouraging and appreciating the other, your partner, friends, family members and relatives, colleagues at work, roommate, neighbors, someone you met at the supermarket... anyone who you think deserves some kindness and appreciation would be grateful to you. Love is free isn't it, so give people chance only by being nice, by smiling at them, by listening, showing affection to the closest ones, and especially the closest ones! 

Maybe affection is the missing piece of the puzzle if you face struggles with your partner or your closest family members. It's just showing them that you care and that they mean something to you. Love is a feeling for sure, but no one will know if you keep it only to yourself, but when you act about it and express it, others will be very thankful and maybe it can change your entire life. 

“Love is an element which though physically unseen is as real as air or water. It is an acting, living, moving force... it moves in waves and currents like those of the ocean.”

-  Prentice Mulford

Then, if you chose to empower and improve yourself, if you want to feel happier and if you're seeking for success within your personal professional or social life, then chose love and start living your better life.

… Just one more thing I’d like to mention: Don’t refuse others’ love and keep in mind that there’s always gonna be some who will hate but others that will love.

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